"Hello Editor, I am embarrassed to ask the doctor, I want to ask you something here. I heard that my husband said that living a married life at an older age will hurt your body, is that right? How old is better to stop?"
Regarding husband and wife matters, most people are ashamed to ask questions. Some people belong to the "open sect" and some belong to the "traditional sect." Once there is a dispute, it is likely to affect the feelings of both parties. Whether open or traditional, there may be errors in the perceptions of both parties. Today we will solve this reader's problem and talk about common misunderstandings.
1. How old is the life of a couple to stop being more scientific?
Many people think that they shouldn't have a married life when they are old, and some even think that they are "old and dishonest."
In fact, this goes against the objective facts. It is a normal physiological phenomenon for the elderly to have needs. Whether it is a man or a woman, harmonious married life can stimulate hormone secretion, which is beneficial to the body and mind to a certain extent. Marital life will also increase the secretion of endorphins, thereby improving disease resistance.
Therefore, even the elderly can have a married life, and there are many benefits.
Therefore, there is no standard answer to the question "How old do you want to stop being more scientific when you live as a couple" . How old to stop depends on the physical and mental conditions of both parties. Some people are still very healthy after their seventies, while some people are in their prime of life with poor physical function and have to "surrender" in advance.
However, due to the decreased secretion of estrogen in elderly women, dryness and dryness are prone to occur, causing discomfort. At this time, lubricants can be used appropriately. In addition, the elderly also have their particularities in their married life, and they cannot blindly pursue intensity and time.
Two, take stock of 4 misunderstandings in married life
Speaking of married life, many people think that the longer the time, the better. In fact, this is a misunderstanding. In addition, there are several common misunderstandings, Xiao Jiu will explain them together.
Myth 1: The longer the couple's life, the better?
Many men like to use the length of time as a measure of ability, but is it true that the longer the time, the better? This is not scientific.
According to relevant research in the United Kingdom, the length of time cannot determine the quality of life of a couple. Most of the respondents said that too long a couple's life will lead to exhaustion, and it will be difficult to recover their strength the next day. Moreover, if a man “holds back” forcibly in pursuit of time, it is very physical injury. For women, a too long time can easily lead to dryness and pain, and the experience is very bad.
It is recommended that the common wishes of the husband and wife shall prevail. Both parties should feel comfortable, not feel overly tired the next day, and do not blindly pursue time.
Myth 2: Can I not use condoms during the safe period?
Some people want to use " natural contraception " methods for contraception, the most common of which is safe period contraception. However, it is not reliable not to use condoms for contraception during the safe period.
The safe period can be calculated by calculating the female ovulation period. Most women have a menstrual cycle of 24 to 32 days, usually on the 12th to 18th day . After ovulation, if the egg is not fertilized, the egg cell will lose its fertilization activity.
However, the safe period needs to be established on the basis of women's regular menstruation . Once the menstruation is irregular, the safe period becomes dangerous , and women's ovulation time is affected by many factors, such as diet, climate, mood, environment, etc., which is difficult Calculate the accurate safety period, so it is easy to cause contraception failure.
It is recommended that if you want contraception, regardless of whether it is in the safe period, you must use condoms correctly.
Myth 3: Long-term use of contraceptives
Oral contraceptives are generally divided into long-acting, short-acting, and quick-acting as well as emergency contraceptives. Contraceptives mainly achieve contraceptive effects by inhibiting ovulation. The main components are progesterone and estrogen .
Some people do not like to take contraceptive measures when they are married, and can only take contraceptives afterward. These are called emergency contraceptives. Emergency contraceptives are hormonal drugs and have many side effects, which can easily lead to menstrual disorders in women. Generally speaking, emergency contraceptives should not be taken more than three times a year and should be taken within 72 hours afterward. The sooner you take the pill, the better.
It is recommended that women do not use contraceptives as a conventional contraceptive method. When conducting a married life, it is best to choose other safer contraceptive methods, such as condoms and contraceptive membranes .
Misunderstanding 4: After the couple lives, can they wipe with a tissue?
Many people have the habit of wiping with paper towels after they are married, because in most people’s opinion, wiping with paper towels can wipe off the secretions, and the paper towel itself is clean, there should be no problem, and even think it is very healthy behavior. But in fact, this is not hygienic, and it will also bring adverse effects to the body.
The tissues we usually use are exposed to bacteria for a long time, and the quality of tissues varies greatly, which may cause trouble to the body, such as causing gynecological diseases and urinary system diseases. If you use bad quality paper towels, it can easily cause skin discomfort, pain, redness and swelling, and even allergies.
Therefore, for your own health, it is best not to wipe with paper towels after the couple lives, if necessary, you can wash with warm water.
In short, instead of pursuing the length of time, it is better to pay more attention to quality, so that both husband and wife are satisfied, and the relationship can get better and better.
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